Today was my neice's birthday, and some of our extended family celebrated with lunch and chocolate cake in the park near to our house. It was a beautiful warm afternoon complete with screeching cicadas in the trees overhead, and bold sunlight filtering through onto the grass.

As we were eating our lunch, some men were carrying stacks of chairs with a sound system and a table, and setting these alongside us. I assumed it was the nearby rest home's weekly picnic in the park, which I've often walked past on a Friday lunchtime in the same spot. It comprises of a large circle of plastic deck chairs, and eldery people eating sandwiches and pies from paper plates.
But as more and more well-dressed people arrived over the rickity bridge and a flautist began to play, we realised we were sitting where a wedding was about to take place.
We left before the bride arrived, luckily, but if K hadn't needed to go home for her nap I would have been tempted to stay and be an onlooker (can you be a wedding crasher if it's in a public place?) and I wouldn't have been alone. A small group of lunchtime park-dwellers was gathered around the periphery already. There's just something magnetic about a simple wedding, isn't there? That vague excitement of milling around, waiting for the bride to arrive.
The tree under which the wedding took place is 'our' tree; one A and K play around and on, every time we we walk through this park. It's a Giant Redwood, and according to the plaque beneath it, planted by a relative of mine in 1951. I like to think that at the planting ceremony my grandmother might have been there, pregnant with my father (he was born at the end of this year.) I remember having picnics as a child under the tree, sometimes fish and chips on a summer evening, batting away the sandflies, my first outdoor Shakespeare play was right here when I was about 13, and later as a teenager friends and I discovered the excitement of drinking for the first time, it would be a good, dark pre-party meeting spot. And now I play games with A and K, running around and around the tree so they can't catch up and think I have disappeared completely.
This afternoon I was struck by the beauty of the local, of the familiar, and of the ties that we as humans form to places in our lives. Most of my school-friends have moved away to bigger cities and bright careers, and maybe someday we will move away again too, but for now I am happy to be here, where I feel connected to a longer story, and enjoy the attachment I have to this place.